So if we are interested in someone who we are physically attracted to then there will be lustful temptations even at the outset of the dating relationship.

Now, some will debate that physical interaction may intensify the relationship but we all know that it can also lead to a pre-mature end of a potential relationship.  That song…”The Thill is Gone” may start ringing in ones ear.

Love works in mysterious ways.  I know some couples who met online and got happily married after a very fast courtship.  I also know some that have had one dating disaster after another.  There is also those who are just professional daters and “I’m not Hatin” that’s just not my cup of tea.

In the end, everyone involved in relationship dating will reailze what their own preference is and that sometimes the outcome can not be controlled.  That goes for finding lust or finding true love.

If we start with loving ourselves first, it becomes much more easy to love someone else.  If we take the shallow road to dating and we are just looking to party there is nothing wrong with that if our intentions are mutual.  When we are making love the primary reason we are dating online there is still many levels of love that we will experience but we deserve to give love a chance.

I am not saying we should go out looking to fall in love with the first person we meet but there is no need to be cynical and think that love is for suckers.  If we have love in our hearts and we remain open to the possibilities of a life full of love then relationship dating will have a great chance for success.