Feb 28, 2009

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Is Dating Matching Up to Your Expectations?

Matching Up Your Expectations ?I met a pretty fine lady recently.  At first glance, she looked like the perfect catch.  She had a cute nose, long blond hair and a shapely body.  I thought I was on easy street.  But as I got to know her over dinner and drinks, I found that this dating matching wasn’t all it was supposed to be.  We didn’t really connect on a deeper level, despite all of the physical attraction.

For most of you reading this, I’m sure you can empathize with me.  The trouble is that you can’t tell a person’s personality by how they look on the outside.  A gorgeous shape and smile could just be a mask.  And behind that mask?  A monster, waiting to take all your money and ruin your life!

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Feb 27, 2009

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The Key to Successful Dating Introductions

When I go out on the town, looking for that special someone to spend some time with, I’m always thinking of new and interesting things to say.   Why?  Because if you have something clever or funny at the ready, then you‘ve got what it takes for a lifetime of successful dating introductions.

Men and women on the dating circuit are very picky creatures.  Consider your own reaction when someone of the opposite sex approaches you.  You judge them on how they move, how they look, what they are wearing, how they smell.  You do all of this unconsciously, and immediately.  Before the potential suitor has even opened his or her mouth, you’ve got an opinion formed.

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Feb 25, 2009

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Men, Do You Need Dating Advice? Women Sure Think You Do!

BarYou are out on the town, it’s Friday night.  You have your nicest suit of clothes on and your hair has been freshly  trimmed.  You’ve been working hard all week, money isn’t a problem.  After a few minutes in the bar, you see what you’re after; a beautiful, single lady.  The stage is set, but if you are like most actors in today’s dating arena, you don’t know your lines.  What you do in the next five minutes could make or break your weekend.  You need dating advice women approve of.

The first step is the simplest, and often times the hardest.   Saying that first line, making eye contact, the first smile, they are all so important.  But don’t get caught up on what you say.  Instead, you should focus on how you say it.  You’ve heard it before, but confidence is the greatest aphrodisiac in the world.  A confident walk, an even tone of voice, steady eye contact.  All of these things tell a woman that she is talking to someone worthwhile.

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